HOW TO BECOME AN INVINCIBLE IN 21 DAYS
According to studies and research, It takes 21 days for a human to cultivate new habits. Thus, to be an invincible person, you need understand who is an invincible person and its characteristic.
By implementing these characteristics for continuous 21 days, one can change their habits and lifestyle.
However, for 21 days you need to be committed and accountable through your own conscience.
Invincible originating from Latin word invincibilis, which means something or someone which is too powerful and impossible to defect or overcome or destroyed or killed.
We all have the desire to become invincible in our life by achieving something which makes us stand out from the crowd.
It might be through sharing knowledge or by achieving goals or by spreading happiness or through inspiring people around you or by earning money or by following our passion etc. But only a few of them are able to achieve what they desire.
So, we need to ask ourselves why they are invincible and why we are not?
A person who is self-aware learns from every situation be it mistakes or defect or success, avoids negativity, empathetic, risk-taker, health-conscious, and ambitious is an invincible person.
These are the characteristics a person must possess to achieve what they desire. Also, practicing these characteristics will make a person stand out from the crowd. Thus, we need to assess ourselves and work towards these characteristics to become an invincible person.
Self-awareness
Who are you? Do you really know about yourself? These questions always keep us puzzled. Thus, it is really important to you know about ourselves, to bring a change and to grow in life.
Knowing about our own personality, individuality, beliefs, motivations, strengths and weaknesses is self-awareness.
If your self-aware then you will be boosting your emotional intelligence, thinking and feeling capabilities making you wise and intellectual person through which you will be transforming your life to the way you want to live.
Thus, through self-awareness, you can take control and make necessary changes to your actions and achieve your desired goals. Also, you will be able to understand other people around you and help them in their struggles.
Learning from Every Situation
“The best way to learn a lesson is the hard way.”
As we all know life is uncertain and we want to make best out of every situation but some situations are easy to live whereas some situations become really difficult to live and such difficult situations make us feel disheartened, frustrated, negative and sad.
However, every difficult situation or bad experience teaches a lesson to be remembered for a lifetime making us strong and prepared.
Thus, we need to learn from every situation and implements those learnt lessons in life for a successful and happy future.
Avoids Negativity
“Avoid negative people, for they are the greatest destroyers of self-confidence and self-esteem. Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you.”
Negativity is one of the reasons your failing in life. So, what is negativity?
It is basically, expression of criticism from someone creating a negative environment which affects the psychological state of a person. Toxicity and self-doubt are the primary cause of negativity in one’s life.
We all are surrounded by toxic negative people who do unwanted gossips, creates a disturbance, spread rumors, try to pull you down and play politics etc. Which psychologically affects a person, resulting in the destruction of self-confidence and self-esteem.
Thus, to achieve success and have a stable mindset one needs to avoid negative toxic thoughts and people in their life. As an individual, you need to be so focused on the journey to achieve your goals that negativity is out of your conscious.
Be Empathetic
“I believe empathy is the most essential quality of civilization.” – Roger Ebert
Everyone lives in their own reality of senses, experiences and temperament which is limited to themselves and their own point of view. Being a social animal, one needs to understand others feelings, experiences, perspective and emotions to maintain relationships and personal development.
We all have become so busy, selfish and judgmental that we either forget or judge people around us that we don’t even make an attempt to understand others feelings and perspective.
We need to realize that human experience is a shared experience wherein we have to share and understand each other feelings, emotions, experiences and perspective in order to address conflicts, personal growth, build trust, social connections, better understanding and communication.
A person who observes with an open mind tries to understand the situation by actively listening and raising logical questions to come up with the best possible solution and who genuinely wants to help someone without judging and criticizing is an empathetic person.
Risk Taker
“Every dream comes with a risk if we desire to turn it into reality.”
If you desire to accomplish something big in life then you need to accomplish it at a cost of exposing yourself to danger, harm or loss. In the process, you might lose someone or something valuable but eventually, when you reach your goal it will be worth it.
However, due to the fear of failure we don’t even make an attempt to take risk and risk is a necessary component of a process called life. Thus, if we are not making that attempt then we are going be stagnant and never get anywhere in life.
The key thing about risk is learning, we all fail and it’s OK to fail because eventually, we learn from our failures and every learnt lesson from failure will guide to success. So, don’t be a risk avoider, be a risk-taker.
Health Conscious
As the old saying goes, “health is wealth”.
Currently, round the clock, people are hustling and working like machines due to which they tend to ignore about their wellness. Which has led to an unhealthy and unbalanced lifestyle.
Wellness is the key to a healthy and balanced lifestyle. A person can achieve wellness only if they are able to keep their mind, body, spirit and financial status healthy.
Thus, to achieve wellness in life one needs to practice empathy, perform meditation, reading books, do physical and mental exercises, consume a balanced diet, follow the passion and try to make life fulfilling.
Be Ambitious
We all have a strong desire to achieve something in life but very few are able to achieve it because the successful ones are determined and hard-working.
Basically, ambitious people are of three categories:
- Dreamers: Those who just dream and do nothing about it.
- Dream quitters: Those who start working towards their dreams but eventually with time and after facing multiple failures their desire weakens due which they quit.
- Dream chasers: Those who are determined and chase down their ambition until they achieve success in it.
A person with ambition and ambitious attitude will get to achieve greats heights, satisfaction, happiness and fulfillment in life. Also, they create their own path and travel a journey filled with great experiences which becomes lessons for a lifetime.
